November 30

Caleb has rediscovered the cape that my dear friend Amber made for  him, and has been wearing it almost daily for the past month. (See it here, or here, among other places...)

Daisy has caught on, and today she brought her blanket to Daddy and demanded: "Cape!"

As soon as Daddy had complied, Daisy began "flying" around the kitchen. She even held the cape out behind her for effect. For an eighteen-month-old, her imaginative play skills are pretty impressive!

Happy girl! Perhaps she needs a real cape of her own for Christmas...

November 29

We had a playdate today at the home of a fellow MOPS mama. There were three other children there, and my two made a beeline for the room *not* occupied by the other children. They played happily by themselves the whole time. I'm pretty sure that defeats the whole purpose of a playdate, except that I got to hang out with friends and chat. So really, it was a win.

Caleb found this Wolverine mask and loved it. Being unfamiliar with the X-Men, Caleb decided it was Batman. He felt pretty tough as Batman, 

but he made a point to let me know that he was just pretending, and he was really Caleb.

The playdate host's daughter graciously shared her beloved teddy bear with Daisy. Daisy loved that little bear with all her might!

I hope she didn't get any food on sweet Audrey's lovey!

November 28

Smoothies for breakfast.
These two are best, best friends.
Except when they're pestering each other.
I hope this bond they have now lasts into childhood, adolescence, and adulthood.

This girl was quite proud of the mess she made with her smoothie. I was proud of her smoothie mustache. Funny!

I was tidying up the kitchen later when I noticed that Caleb had arranged his cars on the desk. He noticed that I noticed, and explained, "Ramone has learned how to read! The teacher is showing them how to read!"
All of the cars were clustered around the big frog in a "convertible". Apparently the frog was the reading teacher, and the cars were eager students. 
Love this boy, and the food on his face and messy hair.

November 27

Our parent educator came today to do Daisy's developmental screening. The girl rocked it! She dominated the language section, aced soicial/emotional, gross and fine motor, and did well with problem solving. I love that my girl whose gross motor skills were so delayed at twelve months is now right on track (and actually ahead of the curve). Hooray, Daisy!

Also, the parent educator informed me that Daisy isn't actually a bully, as I had feared, but rather a "normally developing toddler". See, I missed this stuff with Caleb. He never hit or bit or pulled hair for fun, or shouted "GO AWAY!" at the people he loved. I thought HE was normal. Turns out, he wasn't normal, and Daisy is. So I suppose that's a relief.

After naps today, Caleb and Daisy wanted to paint. I brought their painting stuff near my sewing machine so I could work on a project while they painted. Daisy was so excited to paint that she was flapping her arms and nearly vibrating with joy by the time I had everything set up.
These two painted happily for forty-five minutes, which is ages in toddler time! My secret to success? They each get their own paint palette, rinsing water, paper towel, paper, brushes... as long as they don't have to share, they can play nicely.

After painting, they climbed on top of the toy box/table and admired the Christmas tree.

Love it.

November 26

Caleb: Mommy, please take a picture of me and the baby.
Me: Wha?
Caleb: Please?
Me: OK.

And then he put the baby on his head.

This boy makes me laugh. I think I'll keep him.

November 25

One Sunday each month, Chris and I work in the baby room at our church. Because we're both scheduled to serve, Daisy has to come to church despite the immunologist's "no-church" rule. Today was that Sunday. Today was also the Sunday that Chris and I decided Daisy was ready to move up to the toddler room, rather than the baby room. She's finally walking well enough that we felt it was time. Hooray! So we prayed a quick prayer that God would keep her healthy and protect her from any germs, and sent her off to play with the big kids. 
The girl rocked it! At MOPS, she has a hard time being away from me and fusses most of the time. Not at church! She played with friends, went down the slide, and had a grand old time. Yay, Daisy! Now let's keep praying that she doesn't get sick. (I'm optimistic - toddlers are much less apt to put things in their mouths and spread germs than babies are. I think it will be good.)

After naps, Chris took Daisy outside to do some yard work.

She loved it!

Happy girl.

I am in love with this picture!

Funny girl. That little nose pressed against the glass kills me!

November 23

It feels so early, but now that Thanksgiving has come and gone it is time to get out the Christmas tree.

After dinner, we put the kids in their jammies, cranked up the Christmas music, and set to decorating. Caleb and Daisy were beyond thrilled with the whole thing.

While Chris and I got the tree set up, the kids waited patiently on the couch. Daisy swiped Caleb's Prince Charming crown and was feeling pretty good about herself until the crown slipped down over her face and she couldn't see anymore.

Crown rightfully restored, the children continued waiting.

Finally, it was time to decorate!

Daisy watched Caleb place the first few ornaments,

And then it was her turn. We let the kids hang the big, shatterproof ornaments, and reserved the special ones for later, up-high hanging.

Daisy did get her hands on one special ornament - our "Our first Christmas" ornament, featuring a snow couple and a heart. She was in love, and didn't want to set it down.

Caleb was serious about his decorating work. I love that all of the ornaments are on the bottom third of the tree. It's a true mark of a child-decorated tree.

Eventually, Daisy figured out the ornament-hanging. She liked the jingly cardinal ball.

Our busy little decorator!

Sitting back to admire his handiwork.

And then the Peanuts Christmas song came on the radio, and a spontaneous dance party, ribbon dancers and all, broke out. Our house is a party house, people!

November 22

Happy Thanksgiving!
It seems like every year that passes brings us more to be thankful for. This was the first year that Caleb has been able to understand the concept of thankfulness. We've tried to practice a bit by having a "thankful tree" in the kitchen, and each day Chris, Caleb and I add a leaf to the tree.
Chris' leaves were red, mine orange, and Caleb's yellow. Caleb was thankful for his sister, his pictures, Mommy, our friends Caleb and Hannah, Mimi, Max and Ryan, candy, his dad, his toy snake, butterflies, his friends at church, painting, cars and movies, his toys (and he doesn't want anyone to take them from him), apples, Grandma and Grandpa, Grandmother, his pajamas, our neighbors, the play kitchen, Grandad, raw milk, and his artwork. He had a really hard time coming up with something each day - often, he would just look around and name the first thing he saw. We ended up having lots of conversations about people and things to be thankful for. All in all, a good exercise!

We have hosted Thanksgiving for both of our families since Caleb was born, just because it's easier for us to bring our families together than it is to celebrate separately. This year, because of our crazy diet, we ended up making almost all of the food we served (aside from the turkey, made by my parents, some sweet potatoes, and some rolls). My handsome husbando helped me prep all of the food on Wednesday, so that today it was just a matter of cleaning and heating for our noon meal.

I knew that it was a good idea to let Caleb watch Cinderella - he was all about scrubbing the floors!

Of course, if Caleb does it, Daisy has to do it too.

Somehow I didn't manage to take a single photo of our food or my table. *sigh* But it wasn't that important. We had lots of food. Are you curious what a GAPS-friendly Thanksgiving looks like? We had: candied pecans, a cheese plate with cranberry goat cheese, rosemary olive oil Asiago, and Bartlett pears, spinach artichoke dip, a veggie tray with honey mustard dip, roasted turkey, grain-free stuffing, roasted sesame green beans, caramelized garlic brussels sprouts, mashed faux-tatoes, wilted winter greens, pumpkin pie, pecan pie (both using this pie crust), honey-sweetened whipped cream, coconut milk ice cream, and some chocolate-caramel-pecan "turkeys" that didn't turn out as well as I had hoped.

Our families gamely went along with all of the different foods, and they were very polite about the whole thing. I did notice lots of food going into the trash, and a certain someone required both hot sauce and barbecue sauce to finish his meal. I spent weeks researching and planning and prepping the meal, and I (perhaps foolishly) had hoped everyone would love the food so much that they wouldn't mind that it was different and it would be a win for everyone. It turned out that Chris and I were pretty much the only ones who loved the food; others used adjectives like "interesting". Next year, I don't think I'm going to try so hard. Lesson learned.

After our "interesting" meal, we took advantage of the unseasonably warm weather. My mom suggested throwing all of the kids into the leaves for a photo op, so... we threw the kids in the leaves!

Caleb, Daisy, Ryan and Max. They're a fabulous foursome!

Our friend Dan kindly left us this big pile of dry leaves, hoping Caleb would enjoy it. I think the leaf pile was enjoyed beyond his wildest expectations!

The kids loved throwing leaves at each other!

Daisy didn't like the leaves in her pants and diaper, but otherwise she had fun.

Love this boy.

Grandad even got in on the leaf-throwing action.

I'm pretty sure this was the one time that day that Chris didn't have to wrangle a child. His child-tending skills made all of my work so much easier!

Daisy throwing leaves...

Daisy doing a zombie walk with leaves.


Of course, it's not Thanksgiving without some football!

Even Max got in on the action.

These brothers adore each other!

Emily's boyfriend, Billy, joined us for the post-meal fun.

I'm pretty sure Max scored a touch down.

This boy was all about the monkey bars.

It's a good thing he had someone to give him a lift!

Though she looks skeptical here, Daisy had so much fun swinging with Ryan!

Once the sun set, we gave the kids a bath and threw them in their jammies. Since they totally missed naptime, we fed them an early dinner (peanut butter pancakes, bacon, and blackberries - all of their favorites!) and let them play with the lingering family members until it was a reasonable time for early bedtime.

Daisy snuggled with Ryan,

while Chris and Caleb snuggled on the couch and watched football.

Poor Jenny had to work from 7am to 5 pm, so she came over after work for some leftovers and snuggles with Daisy.

Daisy was remarkably pleased for such a tired girl!

And after that long day, I was one tired mama. I'm especially thankful for my husband, who is the most helpful, loving, supportive, and forgiving man I have ever met. I'm a lucky woman.