August 18

We are definitely in a school-day groove. Daisy had preschool today, and I managed to have everyone up and ready in time to walk Daisy to preschool after we got Caleb off the bus. Her school recently changed buildings, and now it's only 1 mile from our house, instead of 1.5 miles. Daisy walked the whole way, and when we arrived at school I told her that she had walked a whole mile. She was shocked. "What? I didn't even notice it was that far!" I told her that time flies when you're having fun.

The marching band was practicing, so we stopped to watch. Since it's so early in the school year, they were just marching to the metronome and not actually playing. Daisy was very confused. 
Then on to school, where I dropped off my girl, as well as two cicadas and a cicada shell for her classmates to inspect. She was very happy.

When I picked her up three hours later, she seemed equally happy. However, as soon as I got her to the van she exploded in tantrums. I'm chalking it up to a mixture of hungry and tired, but it was a really impressive tantrum. Luckily, raspberries, gluten-free PBJs, and a long nap can fix most things.

It was a good thing she napped, because we had a big evening planned.

Chris and I have never been the type of people who can pass up "free".
So when he got a call last week from an attorney he works with, offering him some tickets to the baseball game, he called me immediately. After much discussion, we accepted the tickets.

Even though the game didn't start until 7:15.
Even though it was a school night.
Even though it was regular seats and not our favorite bleacher seats.
Even though we have a busy week planned.

We decided we would make it work. And then the thunderstorms rolled in. But it seemed like the worst had passed by 4:30, so our plans remained in motion.
Except that Chris ended up staying late at work to discuss a project with his boss.
And it kept raining.

But we soldiered on. I grilled hot dogs at home and packed dinner for everyone, and when Chris finally got home we all loaded into the van and headed for the stadium. Now that we have four kids, we are willing to pay for parking, so we shelled out $20 to pay in the closest lot. Free tickets = $20 parking isn't so painful. I wrapped Eli on my back, Chris popped Lily in the Ergo on his back, and we found our seats. (there may have been a quick detour for a Chicago-style hot dog for me. I feel like I earned it.) Once we were near our seats, we found a table and ate dinner. After everyone was done, we finally headed toward our seats, only to discover... there was a rain delay. Ugh.

Waiting. Lily was screaming. She barely ate dinner, and all she wanted were the gluten-free Joe-Joes I brought. 

Caleb leaned back in his seat, stretched out his legs, closed his eyes, and munched on peanuts. He seemed really happy.

Lily did not understand peanuts. She watched Chris and the kids throw their shells on the ground, and when Chris gave her a peanut of her own, she immediately threw it on the ground. 
Oh well. She'll figure it out eventually.

Eli wore his awesome baseball shirt and enjoyed his time with Daddy.

Daisy was happy about her peanuts.

He was so interested in what was going on!

Unfortunately, right as the game was finally starting, Lily began screaming. It was embarrassing. Though the seats were mostly empty around us, she was standing right in front of the one occupied seat, screaming. I tried holding her, talking to her, meeting her needs... nothing doing. She wanted a Joe-Joe, and I was not about to bribe my child with food. Then I realized it was 7:45, which is right around the time she is normally snuggled up in bed, going to sleep. The girl was done. So even though the game had just begun, we packed up and left.

Basically, we paid $20 to picnic at Busch Stadium. 

Still, the big kids had a lot of fun, so it was worthwhile. Just definitely not how we imagined things would go!

August 17

It's only the fourth day of school, but we are already slipping into the school routine and it is lovely. After we got Caleb on the bus this morning, there was time for coffee on the deck and playing outside, a (much too short) nap for Eli (he seems to finally be hitting the four-month sleep regression?), and a trip to Costco and Whole Foods before lunch and naps. Perfect.

I got lunch together for the girls, and while they ate I put Eli down for his nap. He was exhausted, so I was certain he would sleep for two or three hours. The girls had finished their lunches, so I read to them and put them down for naps, too. As I snuggled with Lily, I debated what to do with my free time. Prep dinner first, or try to snag a nap and prep dinner later?

I left Lily's room to hear Eli crying. He was awake. Again. Less than 45 minute nap. Again.

But mama was exhausted, so I brought him into my big bed to play while I laid down.
Eli's favorite things to do right now:
Squawk. Loudly.
Roll everywhere. I moved to one side of the bed, and he flawlessly executed a triple roll to get to me in two seconds flat. Kid is fast.
Nurse. That is definitely his #1 favorite thing ever.
Chew. The kid aggressively gnaws on everything he can find. I would think he was teething, except that there are no tooth buds in sight and none of his siblings got teeth before 10 months.
Grab. Especially hair. Man, that kid likes to grab and pull my hair.

Yee-owch!

An hour later, he was rubbing his eyes and fussing, so I put him down for what was sure to be his best nap of the day. He was so tired! 
That is a baby who fell asleep in my arms as I nursed and rocked him in the chair in his room. He was sound asleep, and I laid him gently in his crib and tiptoed out.
45 minutes later, right as it was time to get Caleb off the bus, Eli woke up.

Curses.

The blessing of child #4 is that I've already been there, done that enough times to know what is normal and what is random. I realize this is normal, and he will outgrow it. 'Tis a season, and nothing more.

Caleb got off the bus sad, because he said they had watched too many scary stories at school. You had better believe I zipped off an email to his teacher ASAP. My kid is sensitive, and I'm sure the movies were fine, but she probably had no idea that my boy was so upset. She emailed back within an hour, explaining things and promising that there would be no more such movies now that she knew that there was a sensitive soul in the class.

Caleb also brought home this awesome questionnaire, which perfectly sums up who he is right now. See if you can decipher his inventive spelling and often-backwards numbers. I'll translate below.

My name is: Caleb
My birthday is: July 9th
My favorite thing about school is: Math
When I grow up I want to be a: Jedi
(Illustration of Caleb sitting at our dining room table, building Legos)
My favorites
color: red
number: 6 (it's backwards; it's his favorite number because it's his age. He told me his favorite number will change every year as he ages.)
tv show: Curious George (it's been on PBS kids in the mornings lately)
movie: Duck Tales (we got that from the library two weeks ago)
book: Star Wars
candy: gum
animal: cat (not our cat, but friendly cats)
place: pool

I was so happy and proud that I could decipher everything he wrote! The backwards  numbers have always been a problem for him; by the end of last school year he was getting them right 90% of the time, but I guess that's something that slipped over the summer. His poor fine motor skills mean that his handwriting is pretty illegible, and he's still learning the rules of spacing words. But I am proud of his work, and I am proud of my boy!

August 16

I really thought Caleb was going to be the next victim of our stomach bug today, but so far he seems unscathed. I'm praying that remains true, because I'd hate for him to miss school this early in the year. Eli has a cold, though, and is just not sleeping and napping well, so we chose to stay home from church today. Plus, Chris needed to clean up all of the trimmings and branches from the major chopping our bushes got yesterday.

First, a trip to the hardware store for some yard bags.
Caleb chose to stay home and Eli was "napping" (it lasted all of 20 minutes), but Lily and Daisy and Lily's baby doll were excited to go with Chris to the hardware store.

Once they got home, Chris got right to work. Luckily, he had a crew of eager "helpers".
Lily mostly stood around and laughed. She does that well. I think she just wanted to stay close to Daddy in case he tried to leave her for two weeks again.

Then they discovered that they fit perfectly inside the yard waste bags.

What a fun game! 

Even Chris fits in the bag!

Caleb played, Lily stood around and laughed, but Daisy? That girl is a workhorse! 
She was focused on helping her Daddy. These pictures remind me so much of my fierce determination as a child.

Daisy was so proud of how strong and how helpful she was!
She is a funny girl. Photos like this remind of who Daisy really is, and that we'll get through this tricky season.

Meanwhile, inside...
Eli practiced his sitting!

Look at that! He's almost there!

He's still pretty wobbly and doesn't really know or understand what he's doing, but he is so close to sitting! Can you tell from the look on his face how very tired he is? The poor boy fought sleep all evening last night, and all day today. Normally he takes two naps that are at least 90 minutes each. Today, he took several 20-30 minute naps, and one that was just over an hour. I'm going to call it sleep regression based on developmental chaos. He's getting ready to sit and maybe crawl, and it's caused him to totally forget how to nap. It will pass. Hopefully sooner, rather than later!

August 15

Chris is home!
Chris is home!
CHRIS IS HOME!!!!

He got home after the kids went to bed last night, and everything is right in our world again.

We intentionally planned to have a really low-key Saturday so that we could have some family time together. It was perfect.

Lily pushed Eli in the swing, and it was the sweetest thing ever. Look at how happy he was!
(Don't worry, Mom. Chris was making sure that Lily didn't push him too hard.)

I'm really not sure why Lily is topless. I suppose that's just how we roll.

Actually, now that I think about it, she was playing in some water in the garden and got her shirt all wet, so we took it off.

This boy is really happy to have his Daddy home again.

Or maybe he's happy because he's swinging. Either way, he's happy.

Then our friend Dan stopped by; he had all of his kids with him and was doing some yard work for the neighbors, and offered to trim our bushes for us. 
Our bushes needed some serious chopping, so we watched his little ones and fed them lunch while he did our outdoor maintenance. Our kids were so happy to play with their friends!

Chris and I had plans to attend an engagement party for his cousin, so my mom came over to stay with the kids for the evening. (You know, because she hasn't spent enough of her time watching them during the past two weeks!) We ordered pizza for dinner and left her with the older three; Eli is just too high-needs right now, so he partied it up with us.

Happily, Mom took a bunch of pictures on my camera. That's always a fun surprise. 
My dad stopped by on his way home from work, and the kids were tickled that he was there just in time to read them a bedtime book. He gave them this book for Christmas, and it's one of their favorites.

Why do my kids look so cute in Grandma's glasses?

Laughing at silly Grandpa. I love this.

Meanwhile, Chris and I had an awesome date night (with Eli) at his cousin's party. There was great food, great drinks, great live music, and really great company. Eli was wide awake for most of the evening, but thanks to my wrap, he was happy the whole time and never made a peep. Eventually he fell asleep, and then nothing could wake him, even the band. Also, he is totally into my chew beads now. If I didn't know better, I'd think he was getting teeth! But he's definitely not.

We spent the evening chatting with family and being grown-ups together, which was just what we needed. I'm thankful my mom was willing to give us one more evening of her time!

August 14

Instead of waking to the sound of Caleb and Daisy bickering about being Jedi masters this morning, I woke to the sound of Daisy vomiting.

Yep, it was that kind of day. Apparently the virus Lily had last week is a "slow build" kind of thing. Daisy has been complaining about a headache for several days, and today the puking finally caught up with her. The poor girl was miserable.

Thankfully, she chose to sleep like this for most of the late morning/afternoon.

When Daisy woke up puking at 6, Eli and Lily also decided they wanted to be awake. And Caleb was up, too. It was not my favorite morning. But, it meant that Lily was ready for her nap much earlier than normal. I gave her lunch at 11, and she was down for her nap by noon. And Daisy was zonked on the couch, so Eli and I had some fun snuggle time.

Ok, really, I wanted him to nap, too, but the kid had other plans. Usually he's a great napper, but today involved several short naps instead of the two good naps he usually gives me. It was fine, except that Chris comes home tonight, and I really wanted to get things cleaned up and ready for his return. Eli decided that was a silly idea, so we played.

For a brief while he was content in his jumper. He has just recently figured out how to bounce in it, and he really enjoys it usually. I love having a place to set him, since he doesn't sit or crawl yet and I'm sure he gets tired of lying on the ground all the time.

Bouncing is a great alternative!
But today the bouncing didn't last long. The kid didn't nap well, but he also wasn't really interested in being awake. That kind of day.

My blessed mom came over around 2 and held Eli while I prepped dinner and made my grocery list, and then stayed with the kids while I went grocery shopping. Daisy and Lily both woke up before I left, so Mom got to have all three of them. Before I headed out, I grabbed the mail from the mailbox. I stuck my head in the house to drop off the mail, and realized that just after I stepped out the door, Daisy had puked all over the floor. 
Poor girl.
Poor Grandma. 
We got things cleaned up, and I finally did my grocery shopping. Mom got Caleb off the bus while I was gone, and I returned just after they got home. We ate dinner, and Mom read at least 59 books to the children.

They love their Grandma time!

But Chris literally just got home, and now they get Daddy time again. I'm pretty sure I can hear angels singing. Thank God he's home, and thank God he never has to go again!

August 13

We got Caleb off to the bus with no problems this morning; before we left, he hugged me and told me he wanted to stay home with me. But he got on the bus with a cheerful heart, and that makes me happy. Then we headed home to take some first day of school pictures for Daisy.

I was checking my exposure levels when Lily climbed up in front of the chalkboard wall; she wanted her picture taken, too!

It reminded me so much of this picture of Daisy on Caleb's first day of preschool, two years ago:
Daisy was just a few months older than Lily is now! I can't believe she was ever that small!
(Click on the picture to go to the blog post from that day.)
(In case you're wondering, the index cards on the wall in Lily's picture are Bible verses the kids have memorized. We probably need to start over and re-memorize them, though, because I bet they've forgotten them.)

Once Lily was satisfied with her photo shoot, Daisy was able to climb up for her time in the spotlight. 
That girl was so ready, and so excited, to go back to school!

It was just like last year:
(Once again, click the picture to go to that blog post.)
Her hair's a little bit longer, and her jellies are two sizes bigger, but the smile and the excitement are still the same. 
(Side note: the jellies smell like strawberries. For real. They smell delicious, and I kind of want to chew on them. They aren't even new, and they still smell amazing. At church on Sunday, Daisy's teachers informed me that everyone in the class smelled Daisy's shoes, and they even went into the class next door so the teachers there could smell her shoes. I don't know if that speaks to the awesomeness of the shoes, or the hilariousness of my daughter, or a little bit of both, but it's too funny to leave off the blog.)

Then we took a few more pictures on the front porch. What I really wanted was a picture of Daisy standing with her backpack on, but what she really wanted was a picture of her sitting like a princess on the swing. I have learned to give the girl what she wants whenever possible.

When she was satisfied with her princess/swing pictures, she said, "I'll give you a really big smile!" 
Nailed it. That is definitely a really big smile.
Also, Daisy chose to wear her favorite dress to school, but she remembered that there's lots of climbing and playing at school, so she chose to wear shorts under her dress. I was pretty impressed at her thoughtfulness!

Big smile.
Lilac dress.
Jellies.
Backpack.
The girl is ready to go to school!

Meanwhile, Lily just stood by and watched.
Funny story: after Lily ate breakfast this morning, I took her jammies off of her and asked her if she would rather wear a dress or a t-shirt and shorts today. She replied, "T-herr." She ran to her room to choose, and I followed to help. We went through her t-shirt drawer, but she refused every shirt I suggested. Finally I asked again, "Do you want to wear a dress or a t-shirt?" She was adamant that she wanted to wear a t-shirt, even though she had refused every t-shirt I offered. Frustrated, I said, "Lily, which shirt do you want to wear?"
She replied with exasperation, "Bih Shishuh!!!"
I paused, looked at her, and then a lightbulb went on in my head.
"Do you want to wear your Big Sister shirt?"
"YES!"

Poor girl knows exactly what she wants, but she just can't explain it to me. Being two is pretty tough.

Then Daisy decided it was time to make funny faces. 
Lily was enthralled.

She studied Daisy for a moment, then gave it her best shot.

Not quite yet, Lil.

That one's a little bit better...

Still trying. Funny girl.

Then we loaded into the van and dropped Daisy off. My sweet friend Jill invited us over for a celebratory playdate at her house, so the little ones and I headed straight there.

Jill, Sheila, and I had celebratory mimosas. It was lovely. We stayed at Jill's until it was time to pick Daisy up from school, and went home for lunch and naps. All three children napped at the same time, and it was perfect. 

When Daisy woke from her nap, she was crabby. Luckily, I have the perfect weapon against crabbiness: 
Sweet baby snuggles.

Eli and Daisy both loved it!

I definitely hovered right near the edge of the bed; Eli is totally untrustworthy on raised surfaces!

Caleb had a great second day of school, except for the part where he was climbing on a piece of playground equipment and got stuck at the top. He tried several ways to get down, but just couldn't. Finally, he called for help and a teacher came to rescue him. Poor kid! I bet it was pretty traumatic at the time, but he was able to laugh about it later. 

Dinner was the easiest it's been for the past two weeks, probably because we had PBJs and grilled cheese. The kids were hungry, ate cheerfully, and we had a nice conversation. It was just what I needed. Then my mom showed up, and everyone was in bed before 7:30. Lovely.
Even lovelier? 
Chris comes home tomorrow.
Praise the Lord.