March 20

We started our last day in New Orleans like this:
More beignets and chicory cafe au lait, along with pignets (? They were pork sausage, wrapped in a beignet?) at a farewell brunch hosted by the new bride and groom. What a lovely way to end our stay!

We took a long-cut out of town so that we could experience driving on the causeway across Lake Ponchartrain, and it was beautiful. We didn't forget anything this time, so our drive home took about 9 and a half hours. Chris downloaded the audiobook version of American Sniper, and we listened to it the whole way home.

Meanwhile, my mom was rocking and rolling with the kids.
Or rather, she had reached a point of exhausted delirium. Same thing, right? 
She sent me these pictures:
It snowed! In March! I hope the seeds Caleb and I planted survive!

She gave the kids oatmeal (with blueberries) for breakfast, and was much braver than I am: she let Eli feed himself.

He seems pretty proud of himself!

For lunch, she took the kids to visit Jenny at the restaurant she manages.
Those are two happy kids!

And she let Eli feed himself again.

Look at how happy he is about it! Or is he happy about mac and cheese?
Mom told me that Lily devoured her bowl of mac and cheese, and demanded more. Then she devoured that bowl, and asked for a third. Mom cut her off after two bowls. 

We got home about 9:30 pm, after the kids were sound asleep. It was good to be home, and I am so thankful that my mom took such good care of the kids. I think she'll need to sleep for a week straight to recover, though!

March 19

Today was the day of the wedding in New Orleans.

It was also Caleb's baseball uniform pickup day back home, and our neighborhood Easter Egg Hunt.
Thanks to two fabulous grandmas, we were all happy.

Chris' sister Grace flew into New Orleans for just over 24 hours for the wedding, so we were excited to get to spend the morning with her. We ate breakfast at the Ruby Slipper Cafe, and Grace met up with us as soon as she got off the plane. Chris discovered his new favorite thing: a bacon Bloody Mary, with bacon-infused vodka.

After breakfast, we explored the city.
Grace made a new friend.

We enjoyed muffalettas in Jackson Square.

Meanwhile, back home... 
My mom kept the kids happy and entertained. 

While the girls played with all of the forgotten Easter stuff, Gayle picked up Caleb's new baseball uniform. Then, both Grandmas took all four kids to the neighborhood Easter Egg hunt. Both Gayle and my mom took the pictures below.

Apparently it was very, very cold.

Daisy in skinny jeans. It is possibly the cutest thing ever.

Apparently it was cold enough that Eli needed to wear Daisy's kitty hat.

Also, Eli appears to have enjoyed his basket full of eggs.

Go, Lily! Hunt those eggs!

Hi, Daisy! Look at all that candy!

The kids with all their booty. What good grandmas they have!

Did I mention that they walked to the egg hunt? 

My kids are so lucky.

Then they went to McDonald's for lunch. I'm pretty sure by that point, they were hoping Chris and I would stay away forever!

Back in New Orleans, it was cool and threatening to rain. Joe and Ali's wedding was outside, and we were pretty chilly. Chris and I met up with his aunt Maggie and her family for drinks before the wedding, and then we arrived early for a family picture before the ceremony.

Can you tell these two are siblings? 

I was hoping to fit into a certain dress of mine for this wedding, and I have been working hard since February to drop the baby weight. I'm making progress, but the dress was a size 4 and about two inches shy of zipping at my bust. Bummer. Luckily, my super-stylish friend Jessica had a perfect dress and earrings to lend me. I was much warmer, and much more comfortable than I would have been if my dress had fit. So, win?

The wedding ended up being lovely, despite the cold. And despite the allergy attack that hit me right as the ceremony started. Chris saved the day by leaving the reception to run to a Walgreens to buy me allergy medicine, and I was able to enjoy myself the rest of the evening. We danced all night, and I drank more French 75s than I can count. The reception ended with a New Orleans wedding tradition: a wedding parade, led by a brass band. We paraded around the square, and it was the most fun I've ever had at a wedding. I was too busy having fun to take pictures, so you'll have to trust me on this: it was fabulous.

March 18

Chris and I got in his car at 6:00 this morning and began the 10-hour drive to his cousin's wedding in New Orleans. We left all four children behind, in the care of my brave mother. It was our first trip to New Orleans, and my first time leaving Eli. I was pumped.

Just over an hour into our drive, we realized that somehow the bag containing Chris' suit and my dresses for the various events this weekend didn't make it into the car. We either had to turn back to go get it (costing us roughly 2 hours of driving), or find a place to stop and buy new clothes along the way (costing us roughly 2 hours of shopping time, plus the cost of new clothes).
We turned back.
It was not pretty. Luckily, my mom was willing to grab the bag and drive to meet us halfway, so we really only lost an hour and a half. Maybe two hours. I don't know; I don't want to think about it. We ended up arriving in New Orleans around 7:00 pm, instead of the 4:00 we had been hoping for. We drove through some storms along the way, and finally arrived in a gray, stormy, 65 degree New Orleans.

Mom texted these pictures:
Apparently it was cooler back home. Or Lily just jumped at the chance to wear her new winter coat. Either option is likely

Daisy's outfit cracks me up, too.

My sweet boy found a daffodil!

Meanwhile, we checked into a luxurious hotel room, right in the heart of the French Quarter. We took uninterrupted hot showers. We were crunched for time and feeling weary from the drive, so we grabbed carryout from a local restaurant, and enjoyed gumbo and blackened catfish in our room. Then we got dressed up and headed out to walk about a mile to a bar for a Welcome Reception hosted by the bride and groom.

It was raining. 
Just a light sprinkle, with an occasional bolt of lightning, but it was enough to make us pause. Should we have the valet fetch the car, brave the traffic, and pay for parking? Or call a taxi? Instead, we decided to walk.
It was just the kind of thing that Chris and I used to do before we had kids. We have always loved walking in the rain without umbrellas. Now that we have four children, we are much more responsible. But tonight we were irresponsible, and our first encounter with New Orleans was a beautiful walk through the rain.

We enjoyed the party, chatted with aunts and uncles and cousins, and decided to walk back to our hotel. The rain was heavier, though, so we stopped for a little break.

Cafe du Monde just  happened to be halfway between the bar and our hotel, and is open 24 hours. I can't think of much better than beignets and cafes au lait at midnight. It was perfect.

March 17

Happy St. Patrick's Day!
It was another busy day for us, with preschool, MOPS, speech club for Caleb, and planning and packing for our trip to New Orleans. Chris and I leave early tomorrow morning, so everything needs to be done tonight, and there just isn't enough time. Hence the late blog post.

Luckily, I planned ahead for St. Patrick's Day. Several weeks ago I went a little wild in the Target Dollar Spot, and snatched up accessories for today. My kids love accessories. Caleb looked especially fabulous today: he wore a green linen button-down shirt, a sparkly green bowtie, and a green headband sparkly leprechaun hats bobbing on antennae.
He barely allowed me to take this picture, but I'm glad I pushed for it.

The other kids weren't as green or decked out. Daisy removed her fancy green headband as soon as she got to preschool, Lily would only allow a green hairbow, and Eli only had green sweatpants. Oh, well. We're only mildly Irish, anyway.

Lily has begun engaging in more and more imaginative play, which is really fun. Here is one of her new games:
It's called, "Dress Up the Barbie and Make Her Walk on the Piano".
Or something like that.

It's a pretty fun game.

I know; Eli is out of focus. But he is so darn cute, and it's the only shot I got that shows how engaged he was in Lily's game. He loved it!

Even Daisy got in on the action. And Baby Caleb photobombed her. 

March 16

Oh my goodness, you guys. I am a week behind on the blog, and I am so sorry. I know you are worrying about me, but it's really okay. Chris and I went to New Orleans for three days for a wedding, and I've been overwhelmed trying to catch up with everything. Also, I've been bad about picking up my big camera lately, so most of my pictures are crappy iPhone shots. It's funny; I look at photography stuff online and feel so inspired and excited to try things to get better, but then the reality of life sets in and it just doesn't happen. I need to work on that.

But we are here, and we are alive. Wednesday is always our busy day: Swim and Fitness class, then Speech Club, then Caleb's special time with Grandmother. Today I tried to drop Eli and the girls off in childcare during the "fitness" portion of Swim and Fitness class; the girls went willingly, but Eli was having none of it. I decided to make the best of things, and grabbed the Ergo out of my van. I buckled Eli in and we walked laps around the indoor track.
It worked surprisingly well:
I got to watch Caleb play his games (spoiler: he barely participates)
Eli fell asleep after 15 minutes of walking, and got a 20-minute nap
I got a workout, even if it wasn't super-strenuous
The girls had fun in childcare.

Hooray!

Then lunch in the van, speech, naps, Caleb went off... somehow, though, the little ones didn't take very good naps and all woke up before Gayle returned with Caleb. We made the best of it by snuggling on the couch and reading. 
Eli loves being included in reading time! He is still working on his book etiquette, though.

The upside was that the kids all got to see Gayle when she brought Caleb home. Lily was thrilled, and immediately handed her a book and demanded, "READ."

Gayle couldn't deny her! 
Then I took way too many pictures of it. Sorry/not sorry.
Cell phone. I love how Lily is so focused on what Gayle is reading. Also, I love Lily's outfit. Let's pause to point out the details:
long-sleeved skeleton shirt
pink and orange plaid summer dress
red, pink, and silver striped pants
purple, pink, turquoise and white striped socks
fancy pink dress shoes that are a size too big

That girl is something.

It was such a sweet moment that I took a video of it. Lily and I had already read this book (The Red Sled) three times, so she had definite ideas of how Grandmother should read it. The video is three minutes long, but I love it.

Meanwhile, Eli made mischief on the couch.

Then I realized that the moment was too sweet to document only with my iPhone, so I grabbed my big camera. These are SOOC, because I am too lazy to edit them. Again, sorry/not sorry.
Caleb has a runny nose, hence the ever-present tissue. I love that he and Gayle can share the chair.

They were reading a lift-the-flap book. I love Eli's inquisitive little head in the bottom left corner.

Then Daisy woke up and joined in the reading fun. I love this little bunch! 

Wait. Where's Eli? 
Found him.
Hi, Eli!

March 15

Oh, goodness. It was so beautiful today! As soon as I saw the weather forecast (sunny and 80! In March!) I knew we needed to go to the Garden. But it was primary election day, and a preschool day for Daisy.
But 80 degrees!

So we went. First, though, we visited our polling place. I cast my vote in a desperate attempt to keep Trump from progressing any further, and the kids got to vote, too! Our polling places had ballot sheets for the kids, and they got to vote for President (Mickey Mouse by a landslide), Vice President (a split among Superman, Wonder Woman, and Harry Potter), and Secretary of Fun (Donald Duck), as well as a few key issues. It was great, and the kids were so engaged!
This is our mandatory-for-social-media post-voting selfie. I either need a selfie stick, or to up my selfie game, because it is hard to fit all four kids in a picture!

Then we dropped Daisy off at school, and, with a little bit of guilt, I took the other three to the Garden. Once we got there, though, I didn't feel guilty at all. We had the best time! We saw my dad right away, and since we only had just over an hour, we were focused about our visit. Our primary goal: feed the fish.

So we marched off to the Japanese Garden. On the way, this happened:
Caleb and Lily holding hands, as they ran to the fish. It melted my heart. He is such a good big brother!

Lily saw the pink tree up ahead and said, "Oooh! Is that tree pink?" When I affirmed that it was, indeed, pink, she said, "That make my heart happy!" When I offered to take her picture with the pink tree, the girl was nearly beside herself with joy. 
Yes, Lily, the pink trees make my heart happy, too.

We made it to the bridge where we feed the fish, and I got Eli out of the stroller. He has always been to young to participate in the fish-feeding, but today I got a bag of food just for him. 
He didn't really understand the concept of throwing the food into the water, and he tried to eat a few pieces, so I handled the throwing. But he was so interested in the fish and ducks and geese! I had to work to keep him from climbing up and through the bridge rails, but it was a lot of fun to see how engaged he was in the whole thing. I love the little ways he is growing up each day!

After the fish, we had to make our circuit back to the van. Lily was adamant that she wanted to push the BOB.

As you can imagine, it didn't go very well. 
Lily wasn't dissuaded, and was quite peeved when I wouldn't let her push anymore.

Eventually we made it out of the Garden, and got to Daisy's preschool right on time for pickup. The kids begged me to take them to a park for a picnic, but since Eli needed a nap and I didn't have a lunch packed, we ended up having a front porch picnic.
They were very happy.

Once everyone was down for naps, Caleb and I worked on school. After math, we read a book about earthworms, then went out to the garden to dig in the dirt. We ended up getting the garden cleaned up for spring plantings, and sowed some lettuce and broccoli seeds. 

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Farmer Caleb was very serious about his work.

He dug up several worms in the process of preparing the garden, and after reading the book he was very concerned about their well-being. We returned most of the worms to the garden, but one special worm (named "Wormy Worm") went into the wheelbarrow, along with all the weeds and moss we dug up. When we were finished, Caleb wheeled everything over to our mulch/compost bed, and we introduced Wormy Worm to his new habitat.

Then Eli woke up, and he decided to be my garden helper, too. 

Call me naive, but I didn't realize it would involve him getting so messy.

I looked up and found that all by himself, Eli had discovered my spade and begun digging in the dirt with it. He did a remarkably good job!

I mean, really. Isn't this just about the cutest thing ever? Those curls? Those thighs? Those pudgy little fingers? That determined focus?

I don't mind the mess at all. He can be my garden helper any day.

Especially when the end result is this:
This rarely happens, and the boys were so delighted to get to take a bath together!